Coaching
Being a working woman in the modern world is not easy... It’s a constant balancing act, where you’re expected to excel at your career, nurture your family, and somehow find time for yourself. The weight of these responsibilities can feel overwhelming, especially when relationships—whether intimate, familial, or professional—add their own complexities.
At home, the demands of motherhood are relentless. The invisible mental load of organizing, planning, and keeping everything running smoothly can leave you exhausted before the day even begins. You want to be present for your children, but the pressures of work often pull you away, creating a constant undercurrent of guilt. Then there’s the challenge of maintaining a strong, healthy relationship with your partner. With so much focus on everyone else, finding time for meaningful connection often takes a backseat, leaving you feeling disconnected or even resentful.
Extended family and friends can bring their own pressures. Sometimes their well-meaning advice feels more like judgment, or their expectations clash with your parenting style and choices. And amidst all of this, you still long to nurture those relationships and feel connected to a community that understands and supports you.
In the workplace, the challenges can be just as daunting. As a working mom, you might feel overlooked or underestimated, navigating unspoken biases about your commitment or competence. Social dynamics at work can be isolating, especially when you need to leave early for a child’s event or decline after-hours engagements to spend time with your family. Balancing professionalism with the courage to express personal needs, like flexible hours or remote work options, can create tension in relationships with colleagues or supervisors.
These challenges aren’t just theoretical to me. I don’t just empathize with your struggles—I live them. As a coach, I bring years of professional experience and training to help women like you navigate these obstacles. But more than that, I bring my personal experience as a working woman and mom who is also navigating the same challenges of balancing a career, raising children, and maintaining relationships.
I understand what it feels like to be stretched too thin, to battle guilt while striving for your personal goals, and to feel like no matter what you do, you’re falling short somewhere. That’s why my approach is deeply personal and grounded in real-life strategies that empower you to reclaim balance, strengthen your relationships, and lead your life with purpose.
You don’t have to do it all alone. Together, we’ll create a path forward that honors your aspirations as a professional, your love as a mom, and your need to feel whole as a woman. Let me guide you not just as a coach, but as someone who truly understands what you’re going through and is here to help you thrive.
These are some of our challenges nowadays…
1. Balancing Work and Family Life
Time Constraints: With little time for themselves, many women struggle to maintain emotional and physical intimacy with their partners. Date nights and meaningful conversations often fall by the wayside and constantly juggling work demands, childcare, and household responsibilities leaves little room for rest or personal time.
Uneven Emotional Labor: Women frequently take on the majority of planning and caregiving, leading to feelings of resentment or imbalance in their relationships.
Mental Load: Managing the invisible labor of planning, organizing, and remembering family and work tasks.
Communication Struggles: Stress and exhaustion make it harder to communicate needs and boundaries effectively, causing tension in the relationship.
2. Family Relationships
Pressure from Extended Family: Women often face judgment or unsolicited advice from in-laws or parents, adding to their mental load.
Generational Gaps: Differences in parenting philosophies between generations can cause friction.
Guilt with Children: Working moms often feel guilty for not being as “present” as they’d like with their kids, while simultaneously striving to teach them the value of hard work and independence.
Strained Sibling and Parents or In-Laws Dynamics: When managing both their own kids and relationships with siblings or other family members, women may feel pulled in too many directions.
Divorce and Co-Parenting Challenges: For moms navigating separation or divorce, the added layer of managing co-parenting dynamics can be emotionally draining.
3. Career Challenges
Lack of Flexibility: Rigid work schedules or unsupportive workplaces make it difficult to manage family needs.
Career Stagnation: Perceived or actual penalties for taking time off for maternity leave or caregiving.
Unequal Pay and Opportunities: Frustration over gender disparities in the workplace.
4. Societal Pressures and Expectations
Unrealistic Standards: Feeling pressure to excel at work while also being the "perfect mom” or convincing others why you don't want to be a mom.
Social Media Comparisons: Comparing themselves to idealized portrayals of other working moms or families.
5. Lack of Support
Limited Village: Many working women lack extended family nearby or a strong community of support.
Isolation: Feeling alone in their struggles, especially when working remotely.
6. Financial Stress
Rising Costs: High costs of childcare, education, and housing can feel overwhelming.
Debt and Savings Pressures: Managing student loans, saving for the future, and meeting day-to-day expenses.
7. Health and Well-Being
Self-Neglect: Putting everyone else’s needs first, leaving no time for self-care or relaxation.
Sleep Deprivation: Chronic fatigue from disrupted sleep patterns.
Mental Health Stigma: Hesitation to seek help for depression, anxiety, or feelings of failure.
8. Cultural and Generational Shifts
Breaking Traditions: Struggling to balance modern work culture with traditional expectations of motherhood.
Guilt: Feeling torn between career ambitions and parenting roles, compounded by societal judgment.
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It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more.
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It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more.
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It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more.
In our sessions together, I’ll provide you with accountability, tools and coaching to help you overcome burn out, overwhelm and achieve your goals
What is Coaching?
Coaching is a personalized, collaborative process designed to help you lead your life authentically, confidently, and with purpose. Through a combination of active inquiry - which is a s a conversational approach where the coach asks purposeful, open-ended questions to explore the client's thoughts, emotions, and goals, fostering self-discovery and clarity. - reflective practices and actionable strategies, we work together to enhance your leadership skills, cultivate clarity in your priorities, and build balance in both your professional and personal life. It’s about empowering you as a woman to thrive in all areas, aligning your career goals with your family values, and stepping into your unique leadership role, both at home and in the workplace.
What are the Benefits of Coaching?
Authentic Work-Life Balance: The demands of career and motherhood often collide, making it hard to find time for yourself and your loved ones. Coaching provides you with strategies to set healthy boundaries, prioritize what matters most, and carve out time for self-care. By learning to balance your personal and professional life, you can reduce stress, avoid burnout, and achieve long-term fulfillment. This balance empowers you to show up as your best self—at work, at home, and in your own life.
Clarity and Confidence: Coaching helps you gain clarity on your values, goals, and priorities, allowing you to make confident decisions that align with your true self. Whether you’re navigating your career, your role as a mom, or both, you’ll gain the confidence to lead with purpose and authenticity, ensuring that your choices reflect what matters most to you.
Enhanced Self-Awareness: By guiding you to better understand your strengths, areas for growth, and the impact of your actions, coaching fosters deep self-awareness. This awareness enables you to make more informed decisions, communicate effectively, and build stronger relationships, both at home and in the workplace.
Increased Resilience and Adaptability: The juggling act of work, motherhood, and personal life can often feel overwhelming. Coaching equips you with the tools to navigate these challenges with resilience and adaptability, helping you stay grounded in the face of pressure and uncertainty. You’ll develop strategies to bounce back from setbacks and continue moving forward with confidence.
Personal Fulfillment and Career Satisfaction: Coaching empowers you to achieve your career goals while finding greater satisfaction in your personal life. It helps you integrate both roles in a way that feels fulfilling, allowing you to grow professionally without sacrificing your family values or personal happiness.
Why Choose Monica?
As a certified life, health, parenting, and executive coach and author, I bring a unique combination of experience, empathy, and expertise to help you navigate the complexities of being a working woman and mom. I understand firsthand the challenges of balancing career aspirations, family responsibilities, and personal well-being. I’m not just a coach; I’m someone who is living the same journey alongside you, and I’m here to support you every step of the way.
Personal Experience and Professional Expertise
With years of experience as a certified coach and a deep understanding of the unique challenges working moms face, I offer a holistic, whole-person coaching approach. I’ve worked with clients from diverse backgrounds and have a proven track record of helping women like you achieve clarity, confidence, and balance. As a bilingual coach, I bring a culturally-aware perspective that caters to the specific needs of global professionals, empowering you to lead authentically and purposefully in all aspects of your life.
Empathy and Understanding
I understand what it’s like to juggle work and family while trying to maintain a sense of self. My own experiences as a working mom, combined with my professional training, give me the empathy to guide you through the struggles of burnout, guilt, and overwhelm. I don’t just offer strategies; I offer a listening ear and compassionate support that makes you feel understood and empowered.
Tailored Approach for Lasting Change
In my coaching sessions, we focus on what truly matters to you—whether it’s navigating career challenges, finding balance between your professional and personal life, or building resilience in the face of stress. My approach is personalized and action-oriented, helping you create meaningful, lasting change in your life. Together, we’ll set realistic goals, establish boundaries, and develop strategies that align with your values and aspirations.
Results That Matter
My coaching is designed to help you make real progress, both personally and professionally. The women I work with experience increased confidence, clearer boundaries, reduced stress, and greater fulfillment in their lives. With my support, you’ll have the tools and guidance to show up as your best self, both in your career and at home, and to lead with clarity, balance, and purpose.
A Safe, Supportive Space
Creating an environment where you feel safe to explore your challenges and dreams is crucial for growth. In our work together, I provide a non-judgmental, supportive space where you can be your authentic self. Whether you’re looking for guidance on professional growth, motherhood, or personal well-being, I’m here to help you step into your power and live a life that reflects your values.